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My Mutuals

Your specis on here.

My Mutuals is where Nigerians find their person. Like who catches your eye. If they like you back, it’s on.

Free to download on iPhone and Android.

How it works

Two likes. One Mutual.

  1. You see your spec.

    Swipe right on the profile that stops you, or like them from Explorer. Not feeling it? Swipe left. Passes are private.

  2. They like you back.

    That’s a Mutual. It’s saved on your Likes tab, so you won’t lose them.

  3. Now you gist.

    One-to-one chat, so you can get to know each other properly.

Whatever you’re here for

Penpal, friend, romance, long-term or marriage. Say what you want, and skip the guessing.

Swipe

See someone you like? Swipe right.

One profile at a time, chosen using your Match preferences.

Adaeze29
Lives in Surulere, Lagos
~6 km away
Chidi36
Lives in Enugu North, Enugu
~470 km away
Swipe
Explore
Likes
Chat
Profile

Go on, drag the card. It’s that simple.

Explorer

Know your type? Go and look for them.

Scroll through Explorer and use a Filter to narrow it down to what matters to you.

Profiles

Know them before you say hello.

Look for the Verified badge

A little extra confidence that the person you’re connecting with is who they say they are.

Better openers than “hey”

Their prompts, hobbies and interests hand you something real to talk about.

See what you have in common

Your Match percentage shows how well you line up, and where to start.

Privacy you control

No GPS. You say where you are.

Location you choose

Pick your State and LGA. People see those and a rough distance, and your exact location stays yours.

Hide Me from Explorer

Look around on your own terms. Only people you’ve liked can see you in Explorer.

Full Incognito

Look around quietly. You stay hidden except to people you’ve liked, your views aren’t recorded and your last seen stays hidden.

Plans

Free to like. Upgrade when you want more.

Like as many people as you want on every plan. Upgrade to start chats, see everyone who liked you, and move up the queue.

What’s included in the Free, Plus and Premium plans
FreePlusPremium
Likes and passesUnlimitedUnlimitedUnlimited
Swipe and ExplorerFirst 15 per loadUnlimitedUnlimited
See who’s in your Views and Likes listsFirst pageFull listsFull lists
Start a new conversationMessages held until upgradeIncludedIncluded
Boosts per month037
Full IncognitoUpgradeUpgradeIncluded

Safety

You decide who gets close.

Block

Not your spec? Block them and you both disappear from each other. They won’t be told.

Report

Report a profile or chat and our team reviews it. They won’t know it was you.

Control your inbox

Block messages from unwanted profiles, allow chats from Mutuals only, or from verified people only.

Questions

The things people ask first.

How do I sign up?

Sign up in the app with your email and a password, then verify your email.

To finish setting up, you’ll need to add your date of birth, gender, location and at least one photo. Everything else is optional, and you can add it later.

How do I get the Verified badge?

Take a selfie in the app and our team compares it with your photos. If you’re approved, you get the badge and can be found through the verified filter.

If you add or replace a photo, the badge is removed until you’re verified again.

What’s a Mutual?

A Mutual forms when two people have liked each other. You’ll find yours on the Likes tab, under Mutuals.

How do I manage or cancel my subscription?

Subscriptions are bought in the app through Apple or Google, so you manage them in the store. See how to cancel on each store.

When a subscription ends, paid features stop at the end of the period you paid for, and your existing conversations continue. Billing and refunds are handled by the store.

How do I report someone?

Report from their profile or from a conversation, and add a comment if you’d like. They aren’t told who reported them or why. You’ll get a confirmation, but not the outcome.

Reporting doesn’t block someone automatically, so the app offers you that option afterwards. Read the safety tips for more.

What’s the difference between deactivating and deleting?

Deactivating hides your profile and logs you out everywhere. Log in again and it’s restored.

Deleting erases your account after a 7-day grace period. See how deleting works.